Time Changes Things

The past five days have been a bit of a blur my small dose of the flu turned into pneumonia giving me far too much time to think about the present and the past!

When I was younger I had such a carefree attitude towards my life not a great deal ever really worried me. I believed I could do whatever I wanted almost fearless or so I thought. A bit of an unconventional thinker, looking out for all that life could bestow on me. Not sure what I was looking for back then, just out to enjoy myself like most other girls my age basking in the freedom of being independent. Then one day I met the man that completely took my breath away and stole my heart forever and the rest as they say…….is our history.

As a small child we use to move around a great deal, I think this may have been the reason why I had a tendency also to be happy to move state or towns throughout my 20’s and 30’s I always looked forward to what that new place could bring me…..or maybe a little gypsy lived inside me.

How different life becomes when you grow older and have a family and responsibilities it changes our lives forever we no longer think or put of ourselves first. It wasn’t until my children started school that I had to change my ways, even so, I’d often find myself thinking how exciting it would be to move somewhere new again. However back then I had the luxury of taking them with me. Now grown adults with little ones of their own any thought of separation and not seeing them nearly every day just never enters my mind.

 I think that little gypsy inside me has long flown away!

My family have such an impact on my emotional state of mind in the most beautiful amazing way without them even realizing it. Having them around me these past couple of days trying to make me feel better through laughter get well letters and homemade gifts from my five precious grandchildren…….even number four developing her own special cough to go with mine LOL….I might have to retrieve my last post… hence me been, “home alone” without any of the things I needed.

 They once again reminded me that whatever else is going on in my life, when I’m around them everything else seems insignificant….Even Pneumonia!!!

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Self

Sniff .......Wipe.......Cough......Headache.....Oh so hot....I do believe they call it the flu!!!!

I have spent the past two days in bed feeling just a little sorry for myself......you see there was no bell for me to ring...........for someone (nurse hubby anyone out there) that could fetch me some water yummy soup cup a tea.........all the things I wanted needed yearned for!!!!!! No I was “Home Alone”

At any other time I would dream of staying in bed, reading writing sleeping, breakfast tray with juice pancakes coffee morning paper arr the bliss.......the dream. So why is that?? How come we don’t just do it!! Why does it take us to become sick before we give ourselves a break?

Therefore today I have decided I will endeavour to make more of an effort to do the things that I desire more often.......hence writing this post in bed with a lovely cuppa tea........ Because I Can! 

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Reaching Out

 The reality of life sometimes is neither kind nor fair, while we may be enjoying a picnic on the beach with our families......others maybe suffering with the loss of a loved one or some other form of grief in their world.

With the tragic stories coming from Norway we can only imagine the heartache that has affected so many families, friends even whole communities, this will have an everlasting impact on those involved. Although I personally may not be able to provide comfort to those in need, my thoughts and blessing are with them by heart.

Today I woke with the news of yet another loss of life.....that of the very young and talented musician Amy Winehouse. I was devastated to hear this news, I enjoyed her music very much she had an amazing voice. I must say I was somewhat disappointed with those that only spoke about her addictions choosing to reflect only on the negative. I choose to always remember her for the immense joy.......through music that she brought to my life. I hope others will remember that also and that today.......two parents mourn the loss of their child, something I pray I never experience.

I believe we are all given the opportunity before we speak to make a choice to rise above the need to judge someone, or to show compassion. We don’t live their life, we don’t know their inner sufferings, and even if we did, isn’t it more constructive to offer your support with kind words or encouraging advice....instead of passing your own judgments of them, onto others.

I respect the fact that we are all, self opinionated and have a right to have one...... just as this is mine.

I would also hope that if I needed support in difficult times, that you would offer me a soft hand and not a harsh one!

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Abundance

Abundance to me is to try and practice mindfulness in my daily life, letting go of expectations is a huge part of feeling truly free. An appreciation of abundance opens doors in our lives....and lets opportunity in.

To name just a few in no particular order!

 Abundance is.......having a family to love

Abundance is.......a door that opens to let you in

Abundance is.......having enough to share

Abundance is.......sunshine on your face

Abundance is.......the look of wonder in a child’s eyes

Abundance is.......my forever friend

Abundance is.......creating something out of the ordinary

Abundance is.......the smell of an ocean breeze

Abundance is.......a long sensuous kiss

Abundance is.......freshly washed cloths

Abundance is.......the scent of perfume

Abundance is.......a funny card

Abundance is.......children in a toy shop

Abundance is.......having a choice
Abundance is.......My dad

Abundance is.......being a shoulder for someone to cry on

Abundance is.......a mother cuddling her children

Abundance is.......a smile from anyone

Abundance is.......the memories in your heart

Abundance is.......the courage to try something new

No matter where you live.......Abundance is within you!

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In My Own Words

I have another sweet little book.... to be filled with thoughts that inspire me or that simply infuse my heart with hope.

My love for writing everyday is a gift I give to myself......I have learned through writing, that it’s your own view of yourself that matters the most!

Sometimes I write about doubts of yesterday or the promise that tomorrow may bring me... Other times it’s poetry or a mixture of words I put together, thoughts of mine or events of my day. I have a passion for journaling about the precious ones in my life.

Writing also gives me the opportunity to reflect upon my life one page at a time, although I have to admit I can quite effortlessly....... put pen to paper for hours.

I love the quietness of writing........ it provides me personal growth and always takes me to a place where I feel safe with an inner sense of abundance!!

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A Light of Hope Forever Burns

Kristie may the love of family and friends ease your pain in time....Tears all around the world are shared for you and little Avery.

A light will forever shine in our hearts each moment we think of you......You are never alone we carry you with us always xoxo

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Love Deeply

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Fabulously 50 One Week and One Day

Forever Friends

That’s What We Are;

I have been so blessed for over twenty years to have such an inspirational loving supportive friend, her name is Di, she is part of my sisterhood yet so much more, today I’m going to share a little bit of her.....

In Wendy’s World.....there will be tears!

My Forever Friend came into my life at a time when I needed her most, as if she had truly been sent from above....I still today believe she was. You see I had recently lost the most important person in my life....My Beautiful Mother....separated from my family of brothers and sister living in a new little country town I was lonely and heartbroken.....and there she was!

I remember her first words to me.....Hi my name is Di I’m Wades Mum....pointing to a little boy playing with my son at preschool. From that moment in time it was if she knew everything about me already....not possible I thought, yet she could sense how I was feeling every time we spoke....and would kindly offer words of encouragement and hope...without me confiding anything about myself......it was mystifying but intriguing and it’s still the same some twenty years later.  

For My Forever Friend: hand written in my heart!

Each time I see you or hear your voice I come away with something that enriches my heart.

For years you have given me faith more courage for the days before me, inspiring me to achieve

You are laughter to my ears, you give wisdom to my soul, you are unconditional in everyway

As the years have passed us, we still grow together, our memories are our tomorrows

There is something beautiful about us, we smile for each other, when you’re hurt we feel it as one

Although there is distance between us we stand together in friendship and in life

There’s a special freedom we share, yet we know each other’s inner thoughts......we are never apart

Our trust is our strength a connection for life, we are bound by the sisterhood of love

You are without question my saviour...................My Forever Friend in Life!

Always Love In Wendy's World!

Gifts of serendipity: A Musical Thank You...

Gifts of serendipity: A Musical Thank You...: "Hello friends. I send you a heartfelt thank you for all of your warm wishes and lovely notes relating to my last post. This gorgeous vid..."

Fortunate And 40 + 10

A week ago today I turned 40 + 10 ......The fear behind turning this number had me seriously waking up with night sweats! O'.... I hear you....saying no Miss Wendy that's the BIG "M".....Word happening to you! Well no...it was definitely the Number! It seemed everywhere I went or read there it was in front of me.

Of course my children wanted to celebrate this turning point in my life...."Hello Why" so I knew there was no way out for me it was going to happen "Party for Mum"

So there had to be rules....there's always rules....that's the best part of being a Mama!

Rule 1. Keep it small
Rule 2. Just family & close friends
Rule 3. Be nice to me....those old time photos!
Agreed....Sure mum to easy...they said!!

What beautiful obeying children....must have done something right while raising them.

"The Party A 60's Fancy Dress Theme".... just perfect from the start...the invitation still laughing, the club was decked out decorated in bright hippie colours, the food was great, the birthday cake I can still taste... yummy, awesome music brought back memories, though the balloon's did have that number on them....(I forgave them).

Family and friend looked amazingly funny....just loved it.....My Shag for the night...yep that's what they called him...all I can say is "move over Austin Powers" never had so much fun in a long time!!!..... My dad came as a blonde surfer lad...his great grandchildren thought he was a woman LSL I cried!!!....... Special Treats...Seeing My Forever Friend Di all the way from Canberra.....spending time with the two most caring and lovable people I know from Sydney Lynne and Kristy!

A movie was made in honour of my 40 + 10 years and I must say brought tears to my eyes, looking back over all those years made me realize how much we, as a family had accomplished together, the traveling and places we had visited through their sport and holidays, the fun and laughter along the way...but most of all the close bond and love we share between us and now share with their children.... what a truly incredible journey I have had and how blessed I am to have them in my life.

I have had an exceptional week... I will always look back on this time with gratitude towards my beautiful children and Shag....for embracing this special time in my life... that they filled with so much laughter love and serene happiness..... so my friends that's the week that was!  I'm now "Officially Fabulously 50" and loving every moment!!!!

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A New Beginning

Welcome Again To Wendy's World

It has been a while my friends....Well...!! Alright then a few years...yes 2009 LOL

So much has happen in my world since then....however this is a new beginning for me now and I have so much more to share with you!

Loving my revamped page.... promoting my new Photography Art which I will endeavour to show you something beautiful with each new day!  

 

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